We are clowns but we also adults. We are expected to be able to set some boundries. If you don't the kids behavior can just escalate until you do or someone comes and rescues you.
I tell the abusive kids, very quietly and calmly, I won't make them another one because they popped it on purpose, "I saw you"
I then ignore them if they presist and make things for the other children. These kids know what is right and that they are wrong. Once you let them know you have boundries they will respect that.
That is also a Mom's prespective.
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