These days that lable is assigned to a lot of kids. I'm not saying they are not autistic, just that in some cases you may not can even tell. On the other hand I have done parties where the birthday child is VERY autistic and no one told me in advance. Yikes. You could find anything from a child you can not engage in conversation or interest him in anything, to one you do not notice a problem on the level you are dealing with him on.
I would say to be prepared to change what you were planning on a moments notice. Take a deep breath and go with your mind open. They are still just kids. If they seem uninterested in what you are doing just know it is not you but thier problems. Watch your things. A young autistic child can move very fast and get into your box. expect the unexpected. I wouldn't say that is the most fun show to do, but it is doable.
I also once had a Mom thank me after a party for being so nice to her two boys. They are autistic. Truth is I would have never know had she not told me. They were both very polite and had me face paint them, (a lot of contact for an autistic child) I thought they were charming children. So I guess your are still getting a big long "who knows".
Be sure and tell us how it goes.
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