[Nettie Belle]

I'm having my third baby any day now- maybe tonight.

Wow! That is so sweet. I bet you can't wait.

Here is my opinion only ...

I think what Carrie said was a beautiful tribute to mothers. Being a mother is truly a blessing. Children grow up so fast. Each day that passes by is gone forever. If there is any way you can stay home with your children, I think you would benefit most from that. There will be days that you want to rip your hair out, but in the by and by, you will be happy staying home. For extra income, you are very fortunate to have your clowning available to you. That is very good income on a part time basis, and there will be times you could probably take your children with you.

Your career will always be waiting for you, but your children will grow up so quickly.

Most families are not able to live on one income, though, and if you have to go back to work, maybe go back on a part time basis.

Once you are holding that new little baby in your arms tonight or tomorrow, or whenever he/she is born, you will be so much in love, your career will be the last thing on your mind. I know you have felt that love with your other two children, but each child is unique and wonderful.

My kids are all grown now, and when I look back at their childhood pictures, I just can't believe how long ago it was. It seems like a short visit back in time but it was about 30 years ago. My oldest daughter will be 31 in May. I can't believe it!

It's getting harder and harder to lie about my age and say I'm 30. Not just by my sags, bags, and wrinkles, but my oldest would be older than me then. I stayed home with my children until my third one was in first grade, then I went back to work from 10:00a.m. (after my children were in school) and I got home at 2:00 (before they came home).

You know, one problem with staying at home ... fortunately, I didn't have this problem, but if they grow up and start robbing banks and convenience stores, you cannot blame their childhood babysitter for their actions.

Anyway, God bless you and your family. I hope all goes well for you. Your other two children are so cute ... and please post pictures of this new addition.