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Originally Posted by Smacky
Get LOW, down to their level (see my avatar above), move slowly, talk quietly, and allow them to determine the level and time of contact. If they are nervous respect that. I meet close to a thousand smaller kids a year, and by using the basics I mentioned above I can honestly say that there have only been a handful of kids TOTAL who never warmed up to me, but the overwhelming majority do. 
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I'll be honest, Smacky, I love that you've got a kid giving you a hug in your avatar- because just looking at your wig- white face- dark features- at first glance it is a kind of scary look in that photo- but it's also clear that you've done something in your presentation to earn that kid's trust- and the hug. Great Points in your post, and good thoughts to remember - for anyone interacting with young kids in a spirit of love and respect...